Work Distractions
Marissa’s cursor blinked on the page as she stared out in the distance. With emails needing to be returned, contracts waiting to be reviewed, and voicemails lighting up her notifications, she just sat...
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Bionic Baby
“I don’t want a bionic baby,” said my Mum. Bionic babies are what my Mum and I call test tube babies. We imagine them to be stronger than other babies. – more resilient, bigger, even more intelligent…...
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Flashing Skin – How soon is too soon?
Last Tuesday afternoon I was sitting in my office dreaming about Big Driis and just how “big” he really was down under and all that he could do to me with it, because, well, it was that PHD time for me...
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#SexingWhilstFeminist: Now rescheduled to 29th October
[Please note this conversation has now been rescheduled to 29th October in solidarity with #MbokodoLead, #NationalShutDown #FeesMustFall] In an ideal, utopian, feminist world, sex with a feminist will...
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Vlog: How Can Women Keep Themselves Safe in Fauxnogamous Relationships?
Hey Adventurers! For this month’s vlog topic, I am discussing how women can protect themselves from the dangers of a fauxnogamous relationship. Fauxnogamy manifests a little differently than mere...
View Article‘Little Licks and Flicks’ by Guest Contributor Spiritual
A kiss to start your day, A squeeze to your breast. Fingers they do play, Rubbing and cupping your chest. A little rub to your warm treasure, Fingers that dance on your clit. A tongue that gives you...
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Join me in conversation about #SexingWhilstFeminist
Hello Adventurers, Tomorrow from 6-8pm I will be with my Blogging Ghana community to talk about #SexingWhilstFeminist, a conversation that I think would probably be of interest to this community as...
View Article#SexingWhilstFeminist: The Storify
Thanks to all of you that took part in the #SexingWhilst Feminist conversation we hosted with our good friends at HOLA Africa See the storify below, and watch out for future chats. If you didn’t get...
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Relationships and Exes
In the past 8 or so years I have dated 3 people. In thinking about what sentence to write next I realize that most of these relationships were long distance ones. A and I were in an open, long distance...
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Sexing like a man
“You’re like a guy who needs to have his pussy lined up,” said my best friend to me recently. She laughed and then corrected herself; in fact, women should also be able to have sex whenever they want...
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Buy ‘It Wasn’t Exactly Love’
When I initially came back from the 2012 Farafina writers workshop I wrote my first creative piece, ‘A short time…’ and I am especially happy to tell you all now that Farafina has published a...
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‘How shall I break up with my buddy’ asks Guest Contributor ThatGirlQ
He was supposed to be a palette cleanser after a short relationship that went horribly wrong. I’d never been in a FwB situation in my 35 years and this fellow had been pursuing me for just that for a...
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“God Created Sex” by guest contributor, Rumbi
Sexuality is an odd thing. A group of us could be sitting around a table talking about orgasms; each of us using the exact same vocabulary but our experiences will most likely be vastly different....
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Much ado about nipples
My #Afrifem sister @Zawadi Nyongo wrote ‘Is it time for a nipple revolution‘ and that’s set me thinking about my own nipples and the breasts they are attached to. My nipples rarely give me sexual...
View Article‘What I want you to do to me’ by Sokostina
Read ‘What I want you to do to me’ by Nana Darkoa here, Wolverine’s contribution here , D’s contribution here and Eleanor T.K’s contribution here What do you want your lover to do to you? Tell us via...
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‘Living with Fibroids’ by Guest Contributor Dede
Since being diagnosed with fibroids 5 years ago, I have seen a total of 16 doctors. 16 being the number of every individual medical practitioner to have examined me whether for follow-up visits or...
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‘Monologue sur le Matriarcat/Monologue on Matriarcat’ by Guest Contributor...
Je dédis ce monologue à ma sœur Tokossel qui est atrocement mutilée et à ma sœur Seynabou qui est morte l’année dernière, à 40 ans, laissant ses jumeaux et 6 autres enfants. I recant this monologue to...
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My contraceptive story
“I don’t need the pill. I only had sex once” “What do you mean you don’t need the pill? You only need to have sex once to fall pregnant”. And that is how I started on the combined pill 2 months...
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International Masturbation Day: Yippee I touched myself today
I just realised that it’s #InternationalMasturbationDay and for a moment I was like, “Whoa! Is that how come I felt like touching myself this morning for the first time in months?” I woke up just...
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‘Why body count?’ by Guest Contributor Efua
I woke up one day and men and women had begun asking questions that had the underlying expression ‘body count’. Apparently, the virgin question didn’t matter anymore. What mattered recently was how...
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